Book Review: So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids: Diane E. Levin Ph.D., Jean Kilbourne Ed.D.: Books
Book Review: So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids: Diane E. Levin Ph.D., Jean Kilbourne Ed.D.: Books
A must read for parents and teachers alike…,
By Diane Moore -
This review is from: So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids (Hardcover)
A quick little story that ties into my review. One day, as I was teaching my class, I had a root beer in a bottle on my desk from lunch. One of my girls asks me, “Teacher, are you DRUNK?” Before I lost my top, I explained that it was soda. You would think that I teach a high school or maybe junior high class. But no, these are FIRST GRADERS. They are six. Although we could automatically blame the parents, who knows where she got this information?
SO SEXY, SO SOON, is co-written by Diane E Levin, and Jean Kilbourne. Jean has also written the book, CAN’T BUY MY LOVE, about how advertising gets us seduced into the world of consumerism. That was also a great book.
I am not a parent, but every year to me, it seems like the students are becoming more and more aware of things that they probably shouldn’t know about yet. The authors state that it mostly has to do with the media. There is technology everywhere you turn, and when you don’t have that on, you can look at the half naked models on the billboard on Sunset. Sex is all over, and as I was watching a commercial previewing a popular TV show, where all of the actresses are in sultry red dresses and biting into apples, trying to be sexy, I was staring open-mouthed at the screen, and I got it. I think that sometimes we get sucked into it. We are adults and we are “allowed” to watch whatever we want. But, the advertisers don’t care about the young kids. They want to make the children a shopper for the rest of their life. That’s it.
The authors claim that it’s just not just about sex. Children and teenagers have been exploring sex for a long time. It’s about how they are to think of sex. What used to be something to be shared between two people who care about each other, is now something transient. “Hooking up,” not caring about anyone, just doing it cause it’s there. I recently saw another commercial on TV where two people just met, they were talking back and forth while undressing, “I have never been to New York.” “This isn’t even my apartment.” As they are taking off their Levi’s and getting ready to have sex. So, basically, you just met, broke into someone’s house, and now you are going to do it. This was on during the day.
In other books, you would probably read that if you just say NO to everything, your child will be fine. But, these authors take a different view. Say no to things that are inappropriate for their age, of course, but then…watch things with them. Be their filter. Talk about it. Or their parents and teachers will be the media, and you will have lost them. Most teenagers are going to do what they want anyway, with or without you knowing about it. But, if they go into the world with some information, and they respect themselves, they will be better off. Studies show that the parents who keep open communication with their teenagers are less likely to get into drugs and become pregnant.
As for the book itself, I found it a great read that I could hardly tear myself away from. I read it in a day, it was easy to understand, and it made me think about things for the rest of the night. It even gave you scripts to help you through some difficult conversations with your children. The reason I scored it a little lower was because some information was repeated in the book.
Highly recommended!
Eloquent and practical support for parents!,
By Christine Gerzon (Concord, MA) -
This review is from: So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids (Hardcover)
It doesn’t sound to me that one of the previous reviewers, Mr. Males, bothered to read the book. If he had, he would recognize that the main premise is ALL children from a very early age are learning toxic lessons from the media about sex, gender, body image and human relationships that have devastating effects on every aspect of their development. These effects can not be measured solely by statistics.
Anyone who spends time with children knows that the lesson that corporate America teaches them (especially girls) is that self-worth is based on appearance and acquiring material possessions. The main purpose of this constant barrage (children spend more time with the media than with their own parents according to a Kaiser Family Foundation study) of commercialism into every aspect of children’s lives is to increase corporate profits. When a culture is more concerned with money than healthy human growth, it is obvious that our children are at risk for a host of physical, cognitive, emotional and social problems.
We are at a crucial time in our history when more than ever we need competent creative problem solvers who can tackle the real issues we face as a nation and as citizens of the world. Levin and Kilbourne, internationally recognized educators, authors and social activists, solidly grounded with scholarship and experience provide us with the guidance we need nurture the healthy development of our children. If you want to read a comprehensive, eloquent and practical book on this extremely important issue, this is the one to buy.
An Intelligent and Common Sense Approach,
By nbm16 -
This review is from: So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids (Hardcover)
I responded to the intelligent and common sense approach to dealing with the issues at hand. I appreciated the emphasis on communicating with children about the things that society is forcing upon them. Rather than just having to say, “No, no, no - ban, ban, ban!”, parents will be helped by this book because it provides tools for children to use out on the streets. Like it or not, this is what they are facing. It always seems as though the people who have the most difficult time in life are the ones who were brought up in a shell with parents who tried to protect them from the world. The successful people are those who were given the opportunity to gain “street smarts” and coping skills, along with the ability to make choices based on good information, such as that provided in this book.
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